When considering what special person you want to make your “Valentine” this year, there are many different elements to consider. Factors, both good and bad, can help better define whether this person is the one or not. These include but are not limited to…

   Red flags 

1. Drives a truck/Jeep
2. Doesn’t hold/open the door
3. Invites you to dinner without offering to pay
4. Main source of communication is Snapchat
5. Doesn’t post you on social media
6. Named “Carter”
7. Momma’s boy
8. Male Pisces 
9. Over 16 with no license 
10. Listens to Juice Wrld. or Xxxtentacion 
11. Female Leo
12. Owns beat up Air Forces 
13. Has a boy “best friend or has a girl “best friend”
14. Thinks flirting isn’t cheating 
15. Acts differently depending on who they are around 
16.  Has a perm
17. “Saturdays are for the boys” or “full send”
18. Wear pajama pants to school/in public 
19. Calls you “babygirl” or “mamas”
20. Doesn’t wait for you to make it inside when dropping you off
21. Checks Snap score 
22. Says “I’m not gonna argue with you”/“believe what you want”
23. Honks to tell you they’re there when picking you up
24. Calls girls “females”
25. Tracks location 
26. Goes through significant other’s phone 
27. Asks for passwords
28. Always crying/never cry 
29. Leaves you on delivered on purpose
30. Throws up 4s in every picture 

 Green flags

1. Can make you laugh/smile often
2. Has good style
3. Pays for your food
4. Will take pictures/make Tik Toks with you 
5. Walks on the outside of the sidewalk 
6. Opens/holds the door
7. Honest
8. Good gift giver 
9. Lets you meet their parents 
10. Makes you feel comfortable around them 
11. Good relationship with family 
12. Respects boundaries 
13. Posts you on their social medias
14. Has a bald dad
15. Good driver
16. Allows you to have personal space 
17. Makes you a priority 
18. Can match your energy
19. Responds in a timely manner
20. People person